Dating and Relationship Coaching
Do you feel like you are in a rut with your love life?
- Perhaps you just went through a heart-wrenching break-up.
- Maybe you have been stuck in the dating app game way too long and feel entirely disillusioned.
- Perhaps, you go on dates but don't seem to get into a serious relationship.
- Maybe you even have strings of short relationships, but they never lead to anything more profound.
- Perhaps, you have been in multiple relationships that devolve into negative patterns until you end up feeling broken on the inside, unworthy, unloveable, or even abandoned
- You feel frustrated, confused, irritated, and that something may be wrong with you
- You feel hopeless and helpless, thinking that maybe you are just not cut out for love
I've been in all these situations before, and I understand how frustrating, confusing, and disheartening it can feel. You may even doubt if you will ever be able to find love at all. But the truth is that you don't have to be in this rut. You have the power to CREATE YOUR BEST LOVE LIFE!
I am here to guide you in this journey of transformation and creation.
- Imagine being in a relationship where you feel safe, loved, and accepted.
- Being with someone who, deep down inside, you know cares about you, makes you a priority, and wants to meet your needs.
- Someone who you can be yourself with, build a life with, and share dreams with.
- Someone who is your biggest cheerleader, supporter, and a safe shoulder to cry on.
- Someone you know you can be vulnerable with and who understands you and sees you for who you are.
- Someone who you admire, adore and feel absolutely connected with.
That is what a satisfying relationship should feel like. That is the love life that you deserve!
I want it all for you, not through running dating games or tactics. But because at your core, you can transform into someone who magnetizes the right partner, cultivates profound intimacy, and maintains intense connection.
- This requires profound clarity, self-awareness, self-confidence, and self-love.
- It requires a growth mindset.
- It requires reframing failure.
- You have to be willing to examine your own thoughts, patterns, and behaviors.
- You must develop the tools, skills, and knowledge to co-create the dream relationship you want.
I'm not going to lie to you. True transformation is not easy. But, if you step up to the challenge, I'm here to help you accomplish all of the above.
What holds you back from finding true love? The answer is only yourself.
There are many reasons why each of us may not be ready for this journey. We all have our own fears, blindspots, and limiting beliefs. One of my biggest hurdles was that I didn't want to spend money and thought I could do it alone. I felt I was a victim of my circumstances and blinded to my own role in my love life. I wasted 3 years of my life from when I thought about getting help to when I finally got it. I got to a point where I was mentally and emotionally exhausted from being in failed relationships.
Then, I finally realized that having a significant other and a family was one of the top 5 goals in life. I did not want to go through life without experiencing the breadth of romantic love. It was also then that I realized that I had not put my focus, money, and time into what was my priority. Between apps, books, workshops, courses, matchmakers, therapists, and coaches, I probably spent close to $15k combined when I finally started working on myself. I wished I had done it sooner. Now, I save close to $1k per month just by splitting rent and expenses with my boyfriend. Purely financially, I could have saved that amount in a little over a year if I had only realized it earlier.
But more than financial loss, it cost me three years of abusive, confusing, frustrating relationships, struggles to keep my self-esteem, emotional pain and suffering, and a lot of stress. As a woman wanting kids, I also wasted years of fertility. Eventually, I felt pressured to freeze my eggs, which cost more than the 15k I spent. I still think about the time I lost where I could have spent with someone I love.
I tell my story because it is crucial to look at not just what you can gain but also what you can lose. We are all humans, and we all have limitations for what we are comfortable doing, developing, or changing. No matter where you are in your journey, even if you are not yet ready, know that it is perfectly normal. However, I urge you to be conscious of your life priorities and the resources you put into them. I want you to be in control of your life. I want you to succeed and get that love life of your dreams. I want you to get everything that you deserve. I want you to transform, I want you to create, I want you to become.
No matter where in the journey you are, know that you are in control. You have the power to CREATE YOUR BEST LOVE LIFE!
Book a FREE 15-minute initial assessment session if you want me on this journey with you.
Testimonial
Vladimir P.
"Working with Michelle has been an incredibly valuable experience that changed my approach to dating. I would highly recommend her services to anyone who feels stuck in the dating world."
